So you had a setback? Congratulations.
I am not crazy, I really mean it. Though they tend to have depressing
effects, setbacks are a necessary part of our life. They aren't
present to keep balance between happiness and sadness. They are
essential to increase your real success.
Setbacks aren't failures, they are just
stops between your start point and destination. You fail only if you
you give up at this point. Do you leave the train if it stops at some
station before your destined station? Then, why ditch your dream
after a setback?
No one wins every battle in life and
wins the war, too.
The only people who seem to have won life's every
battle are the ones with faulty memories. Liked this line,
click to tweet.
We never introspect or reconsider our
plans when we are on the track of success. Success boosts our ego but
setbacks help us to reevaluate our decisions, to know whether you
were actually on the right track in the first place. There are many
theories of ancient times like some of Aristotle's observations which
are proved wrong now. The only reason, those theories were accepted
in the first place were because someone established them
successfully. They weren't right, nobody cross-checked them, then.
Setbacks spin you around, that's why
your life seems upside down.
Don't give up your dreams based on an
illusion. Give yourself some time. Once you settle down everything
becomes clear. When you have a setback, don't quit. You've got
a chance to analyze yourself and your methods. You can
deal with setbacks and bounce back effectively. Think about it.
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